Dating Warning
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Advice Page
As always young people discuss this with your parents, grandparents, school counselor, or church counselor.
Most of the people above have YOUR long term best interests at heart.
Remember when you take advice from friends, teens, or from adults not listed above you run the risk of poor advice from people whom lack experience in life.
Or advice people living high risk lives.
Protect yourselves!
Be careful.
Once the damage is done, there is no turning back.
Good relationships don't just happen.
They evolve and are sustained only when (the couple) know what they want and how to get it
1. Takes time
2. Takes study
3. co-operation, group effort,
4. Lots and lots of patience,
5. Not necessary to always agree, but necessary to agree to disagree and go neutral.
Often helpful for couples is to define the meaning of what you said immediately after speaking so what you said and mean are clear; & mean the same. Many many conflicts are because the other person's definition of a word/statement is different then the person whom spoke it. Most of the time if people understand where another is coming from(meaning) no conflict arises because there is understanding.
A marital relationship that endures and becomes more fulfilling for both husband and the wife is no accident.
It usually takes thirty to sixty days to change a habit. Your habits can be tiring to another person.
Always try to remember that Love is a choice. I choose to.............
A lion can roar and growl, but it takes a real man to say it gently.
Lions are great because they are great businessmen, loyal, protective, & usually good leaders. But they need to redirect that energy when dealing with the spouse. Deal with spouse gently. Listen to spouse's meaning.
Lions whom tear up the pride, have no families.
Genuine Love means, "I see a need in you. Let me have the privilege of meeting it."
Instead of taking for itself, genuine love gives to others. It motivates us to help others reach their full potential in life. Most importantly genuine love has no qualifications. It doesn't say I'll be your friend if you be mine.
Love only seeks to give.
Doing things for others our way is selfish, immature form of love.
Trying to get people to fit a certain module/mole is the same thing.
Feelings follow thoughts and actions.
There is no meaning in a word. Meaning is in people.
Men, teens: There is no such thing as a low maintaince wife.


But there is a difference between a high maintaince wife and a high HIGH maintaince wife.

Woman by nature or a higher maintaince being.


Men by nature are more forgiving, open minded, generous, & overall more loyal.
Marriage founded on sexual attraction only has no foundation to get a relationship. No sex, no relationship.
End each Day with a clean slate--- settle all offenses by the end of the day.
Not doing so will cause a build up of resentment and frustrations, which will make mountains out of specks.
Abandon "I told you so" or words that mean I told you so: "If only:" statements which keep you in depression.
Wisdom dwells in those people willing to be corrected and even seeking to get error out of their lives.
Replace "you" statements; with "I feel" messages.
When you offend your spouse, do you usually admit you were wrong and seek spouses forgiveness? Remember you offended them, not they you.